Thursday, December 17, 2009

Burning Question #2- C sections

I have decided that I want to start doing a feature about "burning questions" or "Hot topics". So I will need some help from you guys to make this work. Please comment with any opinions you have and let me know if you have ideas for questions too!! Even if I don't know you and you think it would be awkward... I promise it won't be!! I love everyone and would love to make some new bloggie friends!!! I will try to do a question lets say every other week. {we don't want to get sick of this right?}



This weeks question:



How do you feel about C-sections? Even further, elective C-sections or breech baby C-sections {or the things that go along with that, as in turning the baby}?



I know some people have very strong feelings one way or the other, so let those opinions fly. I will share mine when all you people are done :)


16 comments:

  1. I obviously am oblivious to pregnancy type things but I'll still give my opinion. I feel people who go into knowing they are getting a c-section just purely for selfish reasons is wrong. I think you have to try giving it the heave ho first(or if there is a medical reason preventing a good heave ho thats ok too..) My sister had to have all of her babies via c-section but that was because of her lack of hip space(I really don't know the reason) She felt sad that she could never do it the "natural" way. But don't take this opinion too seriously as I don't have a strong opinion about it.

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  2. I've never been preggers, but ya know what? i say whatever is healthiest for the baby! that being said, i will get an epidural when i have babies. (i know some people are against those...) bonus with c section is that the baby's head comes out very well shaped haha, but i wouldnt do it just so my kid's head is round. i'm just pointing out a fact. i guess bottom line is, c sections arent horrible, push if ya can, but dont do something that will hurt that precious little one.

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  3. Being the prego one of the group and having given birth once before here is my 2 cents. I think it's a personal choice for everyone. I don't think there is a right or wrong way to deliver a baby, as long as everything goes well, mom and dad feel good about the choices made, and doesn't put mom or baby in danger. I know ladies that have had a c-section just for the sake of being scared about having a baby vaginally. Can't blame them, it can be a scary crazy thing!! Nothing wrong there, whatever makes mom most comfortable during this awesome process.
    BTW, I think this whole 'hot topic' idea is super fun Dari! You always have great ideas for blogging!

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  4. I don't have any problem at all with C sections. And also, no problems with people taking advantage of elective C-sections. We have safe ways to do it now a days, so if that's what someone wants, then I see no reason why they shouldn't. I am all for what is best for the baby and the mother and I'm sure every case is different. And really, I'm not all that educated on this subject, so therefore, my opinion may not count for anything.:)

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  5. I think having a C-section is in no way comparable to GIVING birth. Duh.

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  6. Oh, and I totally love that you're doing this!

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  7. I have 2 babes & I've had 2 c-sections...first emergency & second elective. I opted a C-section the second time 'round because-quite frankly-the first time scared. the. crap. out of me. I knew a controlled environment would be a better situation for everyone.

    I feel strongly that this is a hardcore personal decision. Just like nursing is a personal decision. You aren't being selfish if you know doing it one way would be more than you can handle. Whatever causes the least stress is better for the baby & momma, in my humble opinion.

    PS: Love this idea....keep it up Dari!

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  8. Well, I guess I'll be the big opposer. I had to have an emergency c-section with Tyler, and I HATED it!!! Women who choose to have a c-section because they think it will be easier than a vaginal birth have it all wrong. I mean, it is MAJOR surgery. And recovery is long and hard! I couldn't even sit up on my own to feed my son for over a month. Everyone I know that has experienced both a vaginal delivery & a c-section agrees. C-sections are NOT fun! I know that in some cases, they are medically necessary, but I don't think that women should opt for one. Hopefully this time I can have a different experience, like the one that I had planned for with my first. Completely natural, with no drugs (don't get me started on those!). ;)

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  9. According to Chinese medicine, C-sections are really bad for your baby. Now do I believe that? Not in all cases. I think elective C-sections with birth mothers (mothers putting their baby up for adoption) is a totally acceptable way to deliver for them. In the case of a breech baby, I don't believe in turning them. I think it's too painful for the mother and most of the time it does't work. How do I feel about VBAC? I think it's a great way to deliver after a C-section as long as your doctor is okay with it. I say, do whatever you need to do to get that baby out.

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  10. It really depends on how many children a woman wants to have. I've had both and honestly the recovery was easier w/ the vaginal birth but the c-section wasn't too much harder. However, w/ each subsequent c-section the area getting cut gets weaker. If a woman opts to have just c-sections doctors will advise no more than 4 pregnancies and even that is pushing it. 4 is plenty of kids for most people so its fine. I'm grateful there is medical intervention b/c I honestly wouldn't be alive if there wasn't. I am hoping for a VBAC w/ my next birth, though.

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  11. This is such a good idea Dari! I'll be totally honest though, I have never even thought of this topic before. Probably because of my baby phobia. :)

    For me though, who am I to judge what another woman chooses to do during the delivery of her baby? I think this is a very personal thing and everyone should do what feels right for them. If you want to give birth the old fashioned way without meds--awesome. If you choose to have a c-section-- great. All that matters to me is that both mother and baby survive and are healthy.

    Can't wait to hear what you think!

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  12. My opinion, I do not think there is a right or wrong way to give birth. I think it is all a personal preference.When i had Aiden it was nice to know that i had an appointment set and i went in an delivered him via c-section. There was no stress involved! However, my recovery was a breeze.........

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  13. I too think that this is a very personal decision for every woman. What you may feel is right for you won't be right for everyone. Only you can make the decision and I don't think that anyone else should try and get involved in your business.

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  14. Whatever is best for baby. I think it's a personal decision and don't judge.

    But... I think that a Csection has become a convenience for most and an excuse to have a baby sooner. A vag birth has a much better recovery time. My C-section patients are always a day or so behind my vag-ers, and sometimes the babies don't do as well because they haven't had the fluid squeezed out during the trip down the birth canal. That's just what I see in my job, but I'm sure there is more accurate informations/clinical studies.

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  15. I think that if a woman NEEDS to have a C-section to do it. My first was an emergency and the second was required by the DR. so I wouldn't have further complications. However,I think it is usually better for the child and mother to have vaginal deliveries. But either way, whatever.

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  16. I think if it is for the baby's health then yes, c-section for the health of the baby.
    I know having the baby natural is the best way to go if the baby is free of complications...but with today's hospitals and technology, I think almost anyone could opt for a c-section and be fine.
    I really wanted one but I was afraid what my Dr. would say if I asked.

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