tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post5216571316842402835..comments2023-10-09T03:55:50.504-06:00Comments on A day in the life...: Burning Question #11Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06952149454502922794noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-59928046986476889072011-12-16T15:12:39.914-07:002011-12-16T15:12:39.914-07:00McCall- a lot of people that use google reader jus...McCall- a lot of people that use google reader just skim through blogs now and don't take the time to click to the actual blog and go the extra step to leave a comment. I know it has made me worse at leaving comments and I have noticed a huge difference on my blog as well :(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06952149454502922794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-86950633192155836952011-12-16T15:12:34.230-07:002011-12-16T15:12:34.230-07:00McCall- a lot of people that use google reader jus...McCall- a lot of people that use google reader just skim through blogs now and don't take the time to click to the actual blog and go the extra step to leave a comment. I know it has made me worse at leaving comments and I have noticed a huge difference on my blog as well :(Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06952149454502922794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-65936478284301252702011-12-14T13:00:47.625-07:002011-12-14T13:00:47.625-07:00I know this isn't answering your question, but...I know this isn't answering your question, but How come google reader makes it so people don't comment?McCallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00395999163248979037noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-17501012711864330722011-12-13T19:10:06.414-07:002011-12-13T19:10:06.414-07:00I concur with Nichole's comment. I don't r...I concur with Nichole's comment. I don't really think I can say it any better than she did. :)Nettihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12631846322881597203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-63777609251913511262011-12-08T17:49:53.065-07:002011-12-08T17:49:53.065-07:00Oooo...this is a good one!
I used to think that ...Oooo...this is a good one! <br />I used to think that cheating would absolutely be a deal breaker, but now that I'm married and know how stinkin' much I love Jason..I would have a hard time not letting him back in my life even after such a horrible thing. Not to say that I wouldn't feel less than the scum of the earth, cause I definitely would, but I have a different view on forgiveness these days. <br />For me, I think anything that looks like it could be cheating should be avoided. Even something as little as getting a ride with the opposite sex bothers me because of what it could look like to other people on the outside..know what I mean? That's obviously not cheating but for me, I'm going to avoid even the appearance of evil.<br />I hope and pray I will never have to be in the situation.Jason and Lesleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04131305595335113479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-32851010829613159982011-12-07T12:38:53.362-07:002011-12-07T12:38:53.362-07:00I agree with everything that Ashley said! My thoug...I agree with everything that Ashley said! My thoughts are that what may start out as innocent texting/emailing a friend can lead to something else down the road. It might not, but I wouldn't go there. I had co-workers (boy & girl) who would go out to lunch w/ just the 2 of them and it was totally innocent. Well, they start sharing their marital problems with one another, which lead to spouse bashing, which lead to the sack. I also love your comment about google reader. It made me laugh!Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09251020646944053024noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-78796132547389894362011-12-07T08:09:58.262-07:002011-12-07T08:09:58.262-07:00Oh, this is near and dear to me right now. I am &...Oh, this is near and dear to me right now. I am "not allowed" to be friends with a very close guy friend of mine right now because the baby momma doesn't want him to be friends with me. Hello!! Do ya know me?<br /> Anyways, I think it all depends on what the intent of the action is. Maybe texting another guy isn't a crime if you're not intending it to be anything other than that. If your spouse knows about texting and they'd rather you not, then you have to respect him. But definitely kissing or anything farther is cheating, and cheating BIG time! <br />Along those same lines I think it depends on each situation if it is a deal breaker for the relationship. I personally have trust issues so I know for me it would be a deal breaker. <br />My friend is currently up to no good...nothing definite cheating but playing with fire. I still love her dearly. I give my advice to stop every now and then but she is who she is and I can't stop her, but it doesn't make me like her any less. I also really like her husband and it bothers me that after he found out what was going on he knew that I knew. But I didn't know what to do with the information, tell him? So, that is still playing out so who knows how that story will end.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10745062111950637991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-1115187864989824052011-12-06T22:40:09.284-07:002011-12-06T22:40:09.284-07:00I have witnessed some awesome cheating moments in ...I have witnessed some awesome cheating moments in people around me. Some were just e-mails, but explicit e-mails. Totally inappropriate. I felt like this person was having a relationship, albeit emotional and not physical, but a relationship outside of their marriage. To me, it was definitely cheating. <br /><br />I think anytime your thoughts and feelings are somewhere other than your significant other, consuming thoughts, you are in a way cheating. I have watched too many people be hurt by affairs and they all started as innocent little flings/e-mails/texts. Don't mess with fire. <br /><br />Is it a deal breaker? Maybe, maybe not. Why make a committment if you are just going to break it? Yeah, you may not intend to cheat when you get married, so don't let yourself have wandering thoughts/feelings. I think it being a deal breaker is hard. You lose a lot of trust in that person. I would have a hard time trusting again, not to mention the shame and humility I would feel. <br /><br />Anyway, there's my two cents.Hone Family as in Ryan and Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01811820841336237244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-20500774772452689412011-12-06T22:06:37.385-07:002011-12-06T22:06:37.385-07:00I have pretty strong ideas about what cheating is....I have pretty strong ideas about what cheating is... it boils down to if your not giving 100% of yourself to your other half then you are cheating them. Maybe not cheating ON them, but you aren't being fair to them and treating them with the respect any human deserves.<br /><br />I have had three friends who had open marriages... none lasted more then 15 months after they made the decision. <br /><br />Cheating would be a 100% deal breaker for me before marriage. Why marry someone who has already lost your trust? <br />After. Well, I've made a very serious eternal promise and... I'd really have to think about it... I'm not sure I have an answer.nicholehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04260848591448874764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-82191549759909689322011-12-06T17:28:42.968-07:002011-12-06T17:28:42.968-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09802053880402154651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1064912405079616920.post-25819325834031527292011-12-06T17:26:07.112-07:002011-12-06T17:26:07.112-07:00cheating....well i think cheating definately isnt ...cheating....well i think cheating definately isnt a deal breaker- i mean we are all human beings and make mistakes (but if it is a continual thing, then thats a different matter!) but what cheating actually is....i think that phone calls and texts are iffy. if you text flirt with someone there is definately a problem and it needs to be nipped in the bud but i dont know if i would consider that cheating. I dont actually know anyone that has cheated on thier spouse (well in my age group!)rachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09385817990235633378noreply@blogger.com